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Just that simple. Curious as to opinions as to allowable dating age difference. Normally I don't like keyboard spine but I think it maybe useful for getting truthful answers to this. We all expect a 32 yr old doesn't date a 12 yr old girl. My question is. Does that 20 not being acceptable stay as their 80 and 60. Should there be less spread no matter the age? Or is any spread fine long as there's love. Really curious. Never heard this addressed
IMHO if it's the early years there may be some bad juju there, pedofilia, if it's older age, maybe a bit of gold digging going on. But, there have been successful pairing on both ends.
Why I'm asking is I'm curious. I used to buy older cars for literally nothing, put a few hundred into them. Wonderful for years, but they couldn't get squat for it on trade merely based on a callandar. Lets look at me for example (No I'm not dating) BUT at near 58 I ran the spartan few yrs back and did quite smartly against 30 yr olds. Beat about half actually. So IF I were to date and I knew a 40 yr old who was the opposite as in she was older in body, mind etc than her years what would be the deal. My uncle is having quite a struggle because of people stereotyping. But he's a 65 that goes like 40. She's a 47 hr old that goes like a 60 yr. I think it's totally on them. Put it on here cause y'all ain't biased as familyQuote:
Originally Posted by Fisherman
Myself, I cannot see how it is anyone else's business as to what goes on between two consenting adults.
Key word there, adults.Quote:
Originally Posted by jaycee
Once you become an adult then age is just a number, as a teen then the age better be close.
^^^^^^^^^^^^THIS!!^^^^^^^^^^^ That doesn't mean we turn a blind eye to senior abuse and fraud........of which I'm painfully aware. Thank Christ,my "spidey sense" was keeping a close eye for a close vulnerable senior family member. Friendly vigilance,walk quietly with a big muther effin' stick. There's one less a**hole,now, on the inside looking out.Quote:
Originally Posted by jaycee
My dad was 10 years older than my mom. They married when she was 20, he was 30.....that's perfectly acceptable. Now, if she was 5 and he was 15 and dating I think the issue is obvious.
Jordan Peterson U of T prof and clinical psychologist first met his future wife when she was in grade 3. They're married and still together today.
Half your age plus seven, but not younger than your kids.
beat me to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by werner.reiche
Who cares.........................